BOOK REVIEW - 2 STATES

Love marriages around the world are simple: Boy loves girl. Girl loves boy. They get married. In India, there are a few more steps: Boy loves Girl. Girl loves Boy. Girl's family has to love boy. Boy's family has to love girl. Girl's Family has to love Boy's Family. Boy's family has to love girl's family. Girl and Boy still love each other. They get married. Welcome to 2 States, a story about Krish and Ananya. They are from two different states of India, deeply in love and want to get married. Of course, their parents don t agree. To convert their love story into a love marriage, the couple have a tough battle in front of them. For it is easy to fight and rebel, but it is much harder to convince. both protagonists are likeable.while krish juggles between his job and different cities in his attempt to marry the love of his life ananya, she is sorting out problems as her marriage if fixed with some other guy by her parents.Will they make it?

BOOK REVIEW - TWILIGHT

Twilight is told by 17-year-old Bella Swan, who moves from Phoenix to the small town of Forks, Washington, to live with her dad for the remainder of high school. There, she meets Edward Cullen and his family, who possess an other-worldly and irresistible beauty and grace to which Bella is drawn. Twilight is the tale of Bella and Edward's burgeoning relationship, brimming with standard teenage drama alongside the unexpected, because, after all, Edward and his family are vampires. These undead friends have chosen to deny their urge to drink human blood, instead slaking their thirst with the blood of animals. Bella soon finds out, however, that not all vampires in her life are constrained by such scruples.

The book has been praised for its treatment of sexuality and morality. Although there's plenty of yearning and sensuality, there is no sex, drinking, or drug use. Edward refuses Bella's desire to be turned into a vampire herself, on grounds that it wouldn't be the right thing to do.

Twilight is an easy and enjoyable read. Its first-person viewpoint keeps the the pages turning. This isn't a masterpiece of literary achievement, however. You have to take it for what it is –- a unique and entertaining, if not flawlessly written, story. Twilight will almost certainly appeal to teenage girls and many women of all ages, but probably not to the majority of males. It's sure to make readers eager to devour the next three novels.

Hindustani Classical Music in Bollywood

Hindustani Classical Music in Bollywood

Bollywood music, which has been the most popular musical genre in India owes its sustenance and longevity to the classical musical tradition, from which it heavily borrowed during the first few decades of its existence.

Classical based songs blossomed inBollywod during a period that witnessed a great renaissance of musical compositions in Hindi Cinema, particuarly during the fifties, in the process, creating a trend that continued well up to early eighties. This period, particularly the fifties saw some great numbers, which inspired a whole generation to adopt classical music and created what is still referred as the 'Golden Period' of Bollywood Music. In the process, it also created many legends whose work continues to be extremely popular till date.

Here are the TEN ALL TIME BEST Bollywood songs based on Raagas of Hindustani music. They are best in the way they have preserved the integrity of the Raag (the original classical composition) and yet delivered a unique musical proposition which brings out what is great about classical music.

Bollywood music itself is not classical music. These are numbers composed by adhering closely to the classical Raag and sung almost to perfection by the legendary masters.

Bollywood music, which has been the most popular musical genre in India owes its sustenance and longevity to the classical musical tradition, from which it heavily borrowed during the first few decades of its existence.

Classical based songs blossomed inBollywod during a period that witnessed a great renaissance of musical compositions in Hindi Cinema, particuarly during the fifties, in the process, creating a trend that continued well up to early eighties. This period, particularly the fifties saw some great numbers, which inspired a whole generation to adopt classical music and created what is still referred as the 'Golden Period' of Bollywood Music. In the process, it also created many legends whose work continues to be extremely popular till date.

Here are the TEN ALL TIME BEST Bollywood songs based on Raagas of Hindustani music. They are best in the way they have preserved the integrity of the Raag (the original classical composition) and yet delivered a unique musical proposition which brings out what is great about classical music.

Bollywood music itself is not classical music. These are numbers composed by adhering closely to the classical Raag and sung almost to perfection by the legendary masters.

Changing fashion Trends Indian Marriages

The concept of Indian wedding has seen drastic changes over the last few years. In the yesteryears, the ceremony was a brief affair, confined to an economical budget, even though the guest list was long. On the contrary, in the present time, the occasion is generally celebrated in an elaborated way, with number of rituals that are conducted before, during and after it. A long guest list, colorful and extravagant venue, lavish feast and a series of rituals are the key ingredients of the 'big fat Indian wedding' that we see today. In the following lines, we have discussed about the changing trends in Indian marriages.

The Concept Of Arranged And Love Marriage
The custom of arranged marriages has been a part of Indian culture since the fourth century. The practice was begun primarily to maintain and pass on the family traditions from one generation to the other . In fact, arranged marriages are in majority, because not all people have accepted the concept of love marriage. However, with the changing time, people in India have accepted the concept of love marriage, which is otherwise considered against the Indian culture. People in the rural India are now more liberal, when it comes to love marriages. Therefore, both arranged and love marriage find equal importance in the wedding scenario of India.

Wedding Attire
The wedding attire has also seen a drastic change, over the passing years. Initially, the bride and the groom used to wear traditional dress, of their respective religions, regions or community. Today, although they still wear their traditional dress during the important wedding ceremonies, they resort to the outfit that is different from the traditional ones for other rituals.

Planning
People's perception of planning the wedding has also changed over the passing years. Few years back, wedding and engagement were the sole responsibility of the bride's family. People within the family took efforts in decorating the venues chosen for conducting different ceremonies . Today, although the bride's parents still finance for the wedding ceremony, (except the reception party, which is thrown by the groom's family), people are now resorting to professionals to make arrangements for their weddings, right from the menu to the decorations. They hire wedding planners for the purpose.

IMPACT OF WESTERNIZATION

 Indian Culture, which is one of the oldest & richest cultures, is now days posing a serious threat as western culture is establishing its strong base in India and slowly and gradually wiping the Indian culture and changes its shape. After globalization (started since 1992 in India), It had already made its presence in Metro’s and now slowly heading towards other parts of India. The culture of India has been shaped not only by its very long history, unique geography and diverse demography, but also by its ancient heritages, culture and traditions. Regarded by some historians as the "oldest living continuous civilization of Earth", the Indian tradition dates back to 8,000 BC and has a continuous recorded history for over 2,500 years (starting from Rig Vedic period).

Westernization has greatly affected our traditions, customs, our family and our respect and love for others. The concept of joint families is remarkably decreasing and everyone wants to remain aloof from others. Nobody now bother about others and only cares about himself/herself which is totally contradictory to our Indian culture which depicts that,   to be a part of each other Joys and Sorrows to celebrate the moments together and share the grief together. Day by day all our value for which India has the pride is vanishing & western culture is incubating in India with faster rate.  There’s no harm in taking good things from western but this does not mean that we should completely adopt it and pretend to be western and misrepresents our identity. It is understandable that India is growing in every field and there is necessity of knowing all the cultures and their traditions.

GLOBALIZATION

Globalisation is the new buzzword that has come to dominate the world since the nineties of the last century with the end of the cold war and the break-up of the former Soviet Union and the global trend towards the rolling ball. The frontiers of the state with increased reliance on the market economy and renewed faith in the private capital and resources, a process of structural adjustment spurred by the studies and influences of the World Bank and other International organisations have started in many of the developing countries. Also Globalisation has brought in new opportunities to developing countries. Greater access to developed country markets and technology transfer hold out promise improved productivity and higher living standard. But globalisation has also thrown up new challenges like growing inequality across and within nations, volatility in financial market and environmental deteriorations. Another negative aspect of globalisation is that a great majority of developing countries remain removed from the process. Till the nineties the process of globalisation of the Indian economy was constrained by the barriers to trade and investment liberalisation of trade, investment and financial flows initiated in the nineties has progressively lowered the barriers to competition and hastened the pace of globalisation

TRADITIONAL VS MODERN GAMES

Looking at the modern children, one striking difference between the childhood that the previous generation had and the one that this generation is having is the lack of Indian

or native games. In our generation (i.e., 1980s and before) we used to play a variety of indoor and outdoor games that were the games of this soil. Nowadays almost all kids play games like cricket, tennis and football. Nobody is playing games like Kabaddi, Goli, Ghilli. These games have a rich culture and heritage value and were tools of passing on some ancestral knowledge or the other.

Nowadays we develop these skills by paying money to centers that conduct personal development courses.

The values that we achieve by playing these games are more when compared to the games that we play nowadays.

It is true that modern games may be, to some extent, beneficial for children to foster some skills, such as computer skills or the capacity to keep up with the latest trend. This is because children have to be proficient at computers and the Internet if they want to join online games, which, in fact, helps children acquire a particularly powerful skill at work in future. At the same time, children have the chance to experience the state-of-the-art technology, raising their awareness of innovation rather than stay conservative.

However, I think traditional games are still indispensible in children's learning process, even much more essential than modern games, especially in modern society. One primary merit of traditional games is that they foster children's communication skills. Unlike most modern games which focus on the interactions between children and machines, traditional games provide a relaxing and enjoyable atmosphere where children can chat, laugh and cooperate face to face. As a result, communicating with a variety of people will not be an issue for these children any more.  By contrast, modern games are developed by game companies for the purpose of profits. Therefore, there is a risk that children may be exposed to unhealthy contents, such as violence or pornography, arranged in the games by such companies to secure financial survival.

Thus, I would conclude that traditional games should be, by no means, ignored by parents and teachers with the advent of modern games. Only through traditional games can children be ensured a positive and healthy skills learning process.

TRADITIONAL GAMES ARE MORE USEFUL THAN MODERN GAMES

Traditional games are more useful than modern games in developing children’s abilities. To what extent do you agree?

It is commonly deemed that games play an increasingly pivotal role for children’s growth, which bestows marked benefits upon the future life of our next generation. Yet whether conventional games are more useful than modern ones in youngsters’ physical, mental, intellectual development has sparked spirited debate. From my perspective, the boons brought about by conventional games far outweigh the banes.

It is manifest that conventional games result in numerous benefits. Owing to the fierce competitions at school, children, in their formative years, need entertainment to balance the long sitting at desks. Obviously, conventional games afford a break from the mental focus of academic courses, which enable youngsters to relax their body and ease their mind. Furthermore, conventional games are able to cultivate young adult a sense of teamwork. Winning the game is not everything, cooperation in striving to win is marvelous successful at help people to communicate efficiently, to trust in each other, and to accept those who are different from themselves. These might make them better prepared for their adult life and become better at decision making and critical thinking.

However, conventional games do not come without drawbacks. If everything children play in the game is exactly the same, their world would really be dull and monotonous. As the saying goes,” nothing endures except change.” No matter how wonderful certain traditional game is, the same without any innovation will lose attraction among young people sooner or later. On the other hand, modern computer games are more likely to measure up to various expectations of adolescents, thereby putting a new patch on the previous programs, from which students can learn computer application abilities.

In the final analysis, I concede that although modern games have something unique, traditional ones are more blessings to offspring. On balance, children need to do their utmost to honor modern technology.

waada hai hamara...

Tum jeena chahti thi,
hum sab ki tarah....... 
tumhari aankon me sapne the, dil me arman,
hum sab ki tarah.....
aur vah sab tum chod gayi ho hamare paas
ek keemti khazane ki tarah.......

tum ek ladki, ek naam nahi ho...
tum har maa ke dil me ho, har pita ke seene me ho......
har behan ke hausle me,
har bhai ki rooh me ,
har jawa irade me sunai deti hai tumhari aawaz........
banti hai kabhi mombatti ki law, kabhi ek tani hui mutthi......
kehti hai, badho mazboot kadmon se 
rukna ab gunah hai, chup rehna buzdili....

tumne hame dikhaya hai ek jhilmilata aasman........
subha ke ujaale saa sunehra.....
wahi jo manzil hai tumhari, meri, sabki.....

aur ham wahan pahuchenge yakeenan,
ek toofan, ek lahar bankar......
YE WAADA HAI HAMARA......

CHILD LABOUR

A child is considered to be involved in Child Labor activities under the below classification given by the United Nations International Children’s Emergency Fund (UNICEF):

• Children 5 to 11 years of age, those who did at least one hour of economic activity or at least 28 hours of domestic work during the week preceding the survey did and
• Children 12 to 14 years of age those who did at least 14 hours of economic activity or at least 42 hours of economic activity and domestic work combined during the week preceding the survey.

Child labor is a complicated and ongoing issue in the present world. According to the statistics given by International Labour Organization (ILO) and other government agencies, more than 73 million children between 10 to 14 years of age are considered as child labour. Asian countries occupies distinctive place with 44.6 million child labour followed by Africa with 23.6 million and Latin America with 5.1 million. Child labour is wide spread in rich and industrialized economies than in poor countries. It is also estimated that there are 60 to 115 million working children in India- which was the highest in 1996 according to human rights watch. As per the statistics, child labor appears to be more in villages than in urban areas. Nine out of ten village children are employed in agriculture or household industries and craftwork. Due to urbanization, more children are getting in to the service and trading sectors rather than marketing. To differentiate on the basis of gender, it is considered that more boys are employed in laborious activities than girls. This consideration is made based on the fact that it is difficult to take a count of girls working in households.

Child labour can be found majorly in below sectors in India:

1. Bonded Child Labour
2. Child Labour Agriculture sector
3. Street Children
4. Children at glass factories
5. Child labour in match box factories
6. Child labour in carpet industry
7. Child labour in Brass and Lock industries

FRESH START

MAKE A FRESH START TODAY

Are you caught up in the day to day doldrums of your career?
 The new year is here. This means its a perfect time to complete the previous year and start fresh. If you haven't been  passionate about your career in a while, capitalize on this time of the year to begin again. If you have lost your get up and go maybe what's missing is a new goal. Something that gets you excited and motivated again. Whether it's a new job or a new way of doing something in your present position, a new goal can give you something to look forward to.

So how do find a new goal ?
Follow these four steps....

CONVINCE YOURSELF THAT YOU WANT A NEW GOAL..
No goal is achieved without commitment. Have you ever observed someone pursuing a goal and said to yourself, "that person is a good believer ." True believers are easy to spot because they are defined by their commitment.  Are you a true believer in your goal ? Are you committed ? If not, shift your perspective. Don't allow yourself to be comfortable with circumstances that do not further your goal.

START SMALL...
Are you in one of these two places?
1)  You have no idea what should be the next step in your career.
2)  You do know, but haven't done anything about it yet.
  Either way it doesn't matter. Now is your time to move forward.
Start small. Small steps increase your confidence and lead to completing other small steps.
Slow and steady wins the race.

CREATE TOUR GAME PLAN...
Having a plan is vital to your success. With a plan, success is yours.  Without a plan you will be working far harder than you have to. A plan adds organization to your goal because it details specific actions and steps to get there.
Another reason to create a plan is that it will prevent your goal from become overwhelming. The temptation to feel overwhelmed is normal. Your plan will give you comfort and help you be successful. Your plan can be formal and long, or uncomplicated and short.

LOOK AT YOUR GOAL EVERYDAY...
Most people want a "do over" or a second chance. You get this opportunity on January 1st. If you create your goal, and then put it away, your words will have no value.ehat you can't see will soon be forgotten as the year progresses. When you look at your goal regularly, it gradually becomes a part of who you are. Look at your goal every morning so you can start your day with focus. Look at your goals every evening, so that it stays with you in your dreams.
So, what do u say..?

You only have one life to live, so it might as well be a life you love...!!!

CROSS CULTURAL COMMUNICATION

All communication is cultural- it draws on ways we have learned to speak and give non verbal messages. We do not always communicate the same way from day to day , since factors like context , individual personality , and mood interact with the variety of cultural influences we have internalized that influence our choices. Communication is interactive , so an important influence on its effectiveness is our relationship with others. Do they hear and understand what we are trying to say?  Are they listening well ? Are we listening well in response ? Do their responses shoe that they understand the words and the meanings behind the words we have chosen ? Is the mood positive and receptive? Is there trust between them and us ? Are there differences that relate to ineffective communication , divergent goals , or interests or fundamentally different ways of seeing the world ? The answers to these questions will give us some clues about the effectiveness of our communication and the ease with which we may be able to move through conflict.

In this module, cross cultural communication will be outlined and demonstrated by examples of ideas, attitudes and behaviours involving for variables :
1) time and space
2) fate and personal responsibility
3) face and face saving
4) nonverbal communication. 

EDUCATION
Education is a vital part of any society. Formal institutions of education are among the largest consumers of published materials. Without them book publishing would be a very different business. Education publishing companies are in the process of experimenting with implementing new forms (eg.electronic) of published material in their practices. Today, technology is increasingly becoming a means for empowering students, and is a method for communication. The digital divide, once seen as a factor of wealth, is now seen as a factor of education: those who have the opportunity to learn technology skills Are in a better position to pbtain and make use of technology than those who do not. Next generation publishers will see much less distinction between print and digital innovation and creativity are becoming paramount. There is also an increased interest  in just- in-time. Alternate, or non formal avenues of education, such as online learning, mentoring, and independent study.

The biggest study faced by education publishing companies are :-
  1)  high cost of text books VS low cost interactive web based curriculum.
  2)  industry concentration.
  3)   Enhanced offerings - due to the advancement of technology in education (usage of personal            
        devices, products designed to accompany textbooks, CD- roms and other instructional
        supplements)
  4)   Labor - heavy practices in the industry.

ONLINE EDUCATION
Online education is fast becoming a major preferred mode of education among students. Enrol long to regular courses is increasingly getting highly competitive in india, so online education and distance education has come as wonderful alternative and several students opt for this. As the term itself suggests, online education means web based learning l, but there is no universally accepted definition. So, the methods used for implementing online education may differ from institute to institute. Some online courses may require students and teachers to meet from time to time for physical lectures or to conduct laboratory experiments while some May not require this. This can vary depending on the course which one opts to take up.

Happiness

DEFINITION OF HAPPINESS......

The happiness is much more than what an article could describe. Some people describe happiness as the feeling we experience , when we realize that everything is exactly as it should be , some define it as the state of feeling that we experience after reaching our goals while others define it as a having inner peace.
       Defining happiness is not so easy. The aim of this article is to teach us how to be happy rather then giving us a philosophical definition of happiness that won't help in changing our mood.

HAPPINESS IS PERSPECTIVE DEPENDENT....

Happiness is perspective dependent emotion. This means that what could make someone happy may not be of any importance to someone else. I may become happy if I became rich but for someone else money won't make him feel happy.